This is a "forbidden film" that Korean men are boycotting.
It's called "Kim Ji-young, born in '82".
From a male standpoint.
When I finished watching this drama with a critical spirit.
It's so weak that you wonder.
Is it impossible to accept a movie that reflects a real phenomenon? I'm sorry.
There is a Chinese saying, "There is nothing here, there are three hundred taels of silver.
What is lacking, you scream.
The film's heroine Ji Young is a housewife.
Every day, in addition to the endless housework and take care of her 2-week-old daughter.
She is exhausted by the constant work.
Her only leisure time.
Her only leisure time is to go to the terrace to watch the sunset in between her busy schedule.
However, even this short respite is easily replaced by her daughter's cries.
But even this short respite is easily interrupted by the sound of her daughter's cries.
Luckily, the heroine has a tall, handsome and caring husband.
She has a handsome and caring husband, Dae-hyun.
He wanted to consult his wife, but was told that the patient had to come in person.
Dae-hyun said he wanted to understand the situation first.
He showed the doctor a home video he had made.
Judging from Daehyun's worried look.
The wife seemed to be unaware of his illness.
On the other hand, his wife, pushing the stroller to the park.
Enjoying a rare free time for coffee.
On the other hand, his wife, pushing the stroller to the park, enjoying a rare leisurely coffee break, runs into a trio of gossipers who work at a nearby company.
The trio is two men and one woman.
They saw Ji-young sitting on a bench by herself with a stroller and drinking coffee.
They were talking about it.
One of them confessed that he also wanted to be raised by his husband.
They were having coffee in the park.
He didn't mind that Ji-young heard him.
Ji-young, who was in a better mood, was instantly struck by these comments.
The stroller was pushed out of the park.
Full-time wife is not an easy job, but a hard one.
When a child gets sick, it can be a real disaster for the mother.
Ji-young is like that. When her daughter is sick, she has to take care of her alone.
When her daughter was sick, she had to take care of her alone, and when she couldn't do her chores, she cried all the time.
There's no way to describe Ji-young's situation.
Luckily, her husband Dae-hyun came from work early to take care of the baby.
Ji-young was so busy that she didn't even have time to eat dinner.
Dae-hyun was so concerned about his wife that he asked her about her wrist, which was injured from the strain.
He asked her about her injured wrist and calmed her down after being taunted by the doctor.
He offered to take a 5-day holiday for New Year's Eve.
He offered to go on a family vacation to avoid Ji-young's hard work at her mother-in-law's house.
But Ji-young vetoed this proposal.
She was afraid that her mother-in-law would be upset and blame herself.
As expected, Dae-hyun went on a family vacation.
Ji-young worked very hard at her mother-in-law's house during the New Year's holidays.
Not only did she have to cook more meals than usual, but she also had to take care of the family.
She also had to take care of the family.
Dae-hyun tries to help, but is ridiculed by his mother-in-law.
In her mother-in-law's eyes, men don't have to do housework.
What's even more ironic is that when Ji-young gets up in the early morning to help with the cooking.
When Ji-young woke up in the early morning to help cook, her mother-in-law pulled out a gift bag.
She tells Ji-young that it's a gift from herself.
Ji-young is surprised and asks what the gift is, she opens it to see what it is.
She is surprised and asks what the gift is, she opens it and finds out that it is a free apron from a Korean bank.
She is confused, but she tells her mother-in-law that she loves the gift.
She was so confused, but she put on a smile and told her mother-in-law that she loved the gift.
Then she put on the apron and continued to cook and do housework.
The New Year passed quickly, but it was a long time for Ji-young.
The time and workload increased exponentially.
It was finally the last day at her mother-in-law's house.
Ji-young was in the kitchen doing the dishes.
After her husband Dae-hyun packed her bags.
He told Ji-young secretly that he could leave soon.
Both of them feel very happy.
However, just when Ji-young thinks she can finally breathe a sigh of relief.
However, just when Ji-young thinks she can finally breathe a sigh of relief, she hears a knock on the door from her sister-in-law.
The aunt comes to visit with her husband and children.
Ji-young's hopes of finally getting some rest were dashed by reality.
Her mother-in-law greets her sister-in-law with enthusiasm.
She told her daughter that she had worked hard at her in-laws' house.
She told her daughter to come to her mother's house and rest.
She tells her daughter that she has worked hard at her mother-in-law's house.
She told her daughter that she had worked hard at her in-laws' house and had come to her mother's house to rest.
After the order, she told Ji-young to take a break from work.
Ji-young, who had been doing housework in the kitchen.
She turned her head and saw the family in the living room.
She took off her apron and sat down on a chair.
She said to her mother-in-law in her mother's voice.
My mother-in-law, if you really want to let people rest, let my daughter go home and rest.
You are happy to see your daughter.
I want to see my daughter, too.
The family, who were laughing in the living room just a moment ago.
The family, who were laughing in the living room, were confused when they heard Ji Young's words.
When Dae-hyun saw this, he picked up his daughter.
He took his wife and left like a runaway.
He took his wife back to her mother's house.
He took his wife back to her mother's house and called his sister quietly in the service area.
He took his wife back to her mother's house and quietly called his sister in the service area, asking her not to call her in-laws to tell her off.
Ji-young finally got some rest at her mother's house and slept for a long time.
When she was half-awake, she saw her grandmother's picture next to her bed.
She remembered her childhood days.
When she was little, her grandmother always taught her and her sister to help the adults more.
But my brother, who was a boy, could do nothing.
He was able to enjoy his grandmother's affection.
As a child, Ji-young learned early how hard her mother worked.
She promises to be good to her mother when she grows up.
She promised to be good to her mother when she grows up, but she was told by her grandmother that a girl will have to leave when she gets married.
But she was told by her grandmother that when a girl gets married, she will have to leave and will not be able to honor her mother.
Ji-young woke up and got up.
When she woke up, she saw her sister and brother at her mother's house.
It turned out that Ji-young had forgotten that it was New Year's Eve because she was so tired.
She had forgotten that it was still the New Year's Eve.
When her husband, Dae-hyun, saw his wife's condition.
He was very worried that everyone would see her problem.
The husband, Dae-hyun, saw his wife's condition and was worried that everyone would see her problem, but everyone thought Ji-young was overworked and didn't take it seriously.
Later, Ji-young found her in the room where she was sleeping.
She found a pen that her father had brought to her brother on a business trip to England.
Ji-young loved the pen.
Ji-young liked the pen so much that she had been pestering her brother for it since a few years ago.
But he never agreed to give it to his second sister.
When she returned home, Ji-young
When she returned home, she couldn't remember how she left her in-laws' house during New Year's Eve.
She asked her husband about it, but was put off by his words.
Her husband was worried about Ji-young's mental condition.
He asked her about her postpartum depression.
He gave Ji-young the contact information of the doctor he had asked.
He suggested that she should go to a doctor for a casual conversation to avoid depression in advance.
The next day, her husband, who was worried about his wife, went to work.
Ji-young met a young office worker on her way to take her daughter to early childhood education.
The girl, who was dressed in a fashionable way, reminded Ji-young of her own younger days.
When she was young, Ji-young was an employee of Korea Planning.
She worked hard and got good grades.
But because she was a woman.
She was not chosen by Team Leader Kim, who was also a woman, to join the more promising planning team.
Team Leader Kim explains the situation to Ji Young.
He told her that the marriage and childbirth problems that women face afterwards are too complicated and that she would not be able to fit in with the long-term planning team.
She says that it is not suitable for the long-term development of the planning team.
Team leader Kim and Ji-young say straight out.
She said that she had given up being a good wife, mother, and daughter
She said that she gave up being a good wife, a good mother, and a good daughter to get to where she is today.
At that time, the young Ji-young said that she also wanted to be like Team Leader Kim.
The new woman who has her own career even after marriage!
Now, it's like a lifetime ago.
After Ji-young dropped off her daughter at the kindergarten, she met other full-time mothers.
They warmly invited Ji Young to sit down for a cup of coffee and a chat.
It was then that Ji-young realized that
They were sitting together with the unattractive group of full-time wives.
They are either engineering graduates from Seoul National University
They are either graduates of engineering or acting.
They had all given up their careers for their families.
Full-time mothers gathered together to talk about their past.
I don't understand why they studied so hard back then.
Is it just to teach multiplication to children? Ji-young
Ji-young, on her way home.
After seeing an ad for a part-time job at a bakery.
She was thinking of continuing to work.
At the same time, Ji-young received a call from her sister, a former colleague.
At the same time, Ji-young received a call from her sister, a former colleague.
She encourages Ji-young to join his company.
Ji-young is encouraged to join his company.
On the other hand, Dae-hyun, who is worried about his wife's mental condition.
He searched the internet for ghost possession pages.
He also asked his colleagues about possession and depression.
The result was that his colleagues thought that people with this disease must be crazy.
Daxian was very angry, but there was nothing he could do.
He did not dare to tell his wife about it.
Maybe he was afraid, or maybe he didn't know how to face it.
Back home, Dae-hyun suggests that Ji-young go to the gym to exercise.
He suggested that Ji-young go to the gym to exercise, hoping that the exercise would make her feel better.
Ji-young tells him that she is going to work part-time at a bakery.
When Dae-hyun heard this, he was angry.
He doesn't want his wife to do a job she doesn't like.
After all, his wife has a degree in literature from a decent university.
After hearing that, Ji Young went back to his room in silence.
He was very angry when he heard that he didn't want his wife to work in a job he didn't like.
It was late at night.
Dae-hyun, who was lying on the sofa, fell asleep.
He was awakened by the sound of his wife opening a beer can.
He went over to his wife to tell her not to drink.
He went over to his wife and tried to tell her not to drink, only to find that she was lecturing him in a different tone.
He asked him to keep his mouth shut these days.
He told his wife to say more polite things like, "Thank you for your hard work.
Dae-hyun was so sad that he burst into tears.
Because this time, his wife became another person.
This time, his wife turned into another person, and it was his wife's schoolmate, Cha Seung-yeon, who had died in childbirth.
Then he had to go to his previous psychiatrist and
He told his wife that her condition had worsened.
and asked the doctor if the death of his sister
He asked the doctor if the death of his sister had aggravated his wife's depression?
The doctor's reply was the same.
In any case, she had to see the patient in person to be sure.
So Dae-hyun repeatedly told his wife, who had no idea what was happening to her, to go to the doctor she had referred to.
He told his wife, who had no idea what had happened to her, to go and talk to the doctor he had introduced to her.
However, Ji-young agreed to her husband's request.
However, Ji-young, who agreed to her husband's request, was still waiting at the hospital.
However, Ji-young agreed to her husband's request and left the hospital because of the 350,000 won fee.
After leaving, Ji-young pondered over the offer of a new job.
She decided to take a job at Team Leader Kim's start-up company.
So she dialed her colleague's sister's phone number
She called her colleague's sister to get the contact information of Captain Kim.
But she unexpectedly learns a horrible news.
It turned out that the security guard had put invisible cameras in the women's bathroom of the original company.
The footage of female colleagues going to the bathroom was sold to a website that was not suitable for children.
Although the security guard was arrested by the police, the female colleagues were scared to death.
The security guards were arrested by the police, but the female colleagues were scared to death.
Ji-young was also scared, and she remembered her school days.
She was once followed by a senior boy late at night.
Fortunately, her father and a good samaritan came to her rescue in time.
But she was blamed by her father for being the victim.
She was blamed by her father for wearing a dress.
She was targeted because she was wearing a skirt and smiling politely at people.
Even as an adult, Ji-young is still shocked by the experience she had as a young girl.
Even as an adult, Ji-young still looks back on it with horror.
Her insomnia has also worsened.
On the other hand, her mother-in-law, who came to Seoul from Busan to see her son, was surprised to hear about Ji-young's condition.
On the other hand, her mother-in-law, who had come to Seoul from Busan to see her son, was surprised to hear about Ji-young's condition.
Even so, she called her daughter-in-law and
Even so, she called her daughter-in-law and asked her to send her some herbal medicine to her daughter-in-law.
She told her to take care of her health.
On the weekend, it was Ji-young's mother's birthday.
However, her husband Dae-hyun had to attend a harassment seminar organized by the company and could not accompany her.
So Ji-young had to take the subway to her mother's house by herself with the baby in her arms.
Ji-young fell asleep while watching the baby soon after she entered the house.
In her sleep, she recalled that her young mother had told her that she wanted to be a scholar.
She recalled that her young mother had told her that she wanted to be an educated teacher.
But because she had to pay for her brothers' schooling.
So she had to go to the slums of Korea to work as a seamstress.
To earn money for her brothers.
Ji-young knew that her mother had always been the one who gave the most to the family.
And she didn't have a patriarchal mindset.
She always treated the three of them equally.
Now it's time for her to enjoy the blessings.
After growing up, my sister was extraordinarily filial and obedient.
On the day of her mother's birthday, she took her brother to a gourmet restaurant and bought a large table of food.
So that mom can rest a little.
However, the three siblings, who are well educated and united, are still unable to resist
But the three siblings, who are well educated and united, are still unable to resist Aunt Ji-young's words.
It's just the same old ideas.
The younger brother, as a man, has to be taken care of for life.
And the girls must live.
Sister celibacy to support themselves.
I'm sure I'll regret it when I'm old.
In the face of these ideas, Sis disliked them all without mercy.
Sister is one of the rare girls in Korean society who has lived her life to the fullest.
She had her own career and chose to be celibate.
Even so, she chose to go to a cheap teacher's college for her younger siblings when she was in college.
She chose to go to a cheap teacher's college for her younger siblings.
From childhood to adulthood, she has always borne too much responsibility.
The good thing is that her younger brother is very understanding and knows how to thank her sister for her efforts.
It may be that the early years of too much to pay.
I think it's because of the early years of giving too much, let the sister early see through the warmth of human feelings.
So when he became an adult, he chose a sober path to get rid of the social and human imposed
to get rid of the responsibility imposed on them by society and human feelings.
The picture of the three siblings united and close is touching.
Ji-young also received a letter from Captain Kim.
She soon made a meeting with Captain Kim.
He was very positive about Ji-young's ability and invited her to join his team.
He invited her to join his business team.
Ji-young was so happy that she told her husband.
After informing her husband, she started looking for a nanny for her daughter.
But the process of finding a nanny was very unsuccessful.
So her husband, Dae-hyun, plans to apply for a year of parental leave from the company to support Ji-young's return to work.
Ji-young's husband, Dae-hyun, plans to apply for a year of parental leave to support her return to work.
Unfortunately, this plan was strongly opposed by her mother-in-law.
She called Ji-young's mother to tell her mother-in-law that Ji-young is now working.
She called Ji-young's mother to tell her in-laws that Ji-young's mental state is not normal.
She called Ji-young's mother and told her that Ji-young was mentally unstable and would occasionally speak as a different person like a ghost.
After Ji-young's work plan is put on hold, she cries and loses hope in life.
She lost all hope in life.
Afterwards, her mother, who was informed of Ji-young's situation, came to Ji-young's home.
She told Ji-young to work hard and that she would move in to watch her children.
However, Ji-young, who had the support of her mother's family, suddenly changed her face.
However, Ji-young suddenly changed her face and said to her mother with a kiss from Ji-young's grandmother.
My daughter has sacrificed most of her life for her family.
Since she was a child, she has been working in a textile factory in the slums.
Her hand was injured and bleeding, so now that she's old.
So, now that she is old, she should live her own life and stop worrying about her children's affairs.
The mother who saw Ji-young's transformation was devastated.
She hugged her daughter and cried.
She knew that her daughter's condition was serious.
Ji-young finally decided to listen to her mother-in-law's request.
She decided to give up her job and stay home to watch the baby.
She had a heated argument with her husband.
She believed that her husband did not want her to work.
She thought that her husband didn't want her to work and that he was just talking about applying for parental leave.
Finally, Dae-hyun told Ji-young the truth about her illness.
He took out the video from his phone.
In the video, Ji-young is talking to her daughter in the voice of Ji-young's mother.
The video shows Ji Young talking to her daughter in her mother's voice.
The couple cried and hugged each other as they realized the truth.
Ji-young decided to go to the psychiatric department of the hospital.
After that, Ji Young's brother grew up in a flash when he learned that Ji Young was sick.
He grew up and cared for his sick sister.
He gave her the pen that she had always loved.
Then Ji-young went to see Captain Kim and told him about her situation.
She politely declined his invitation.
She finally decided to take care of herself.
She finally decided to take care of herself and went to the hospital to talk to the psychiatrist.
She felt that as a mother and as a wife.
She felt that she had a happy life as a mother and as a wife.
However, she felt that she had lost herself.
She felt like she was being held captive.
She blamed herself for the fact that she was the only one who was having problems while everyone else was fine.
The doctor asked her what she should do when she felt angry. The doctor asks her what she should do when she feels angry.
Ji-young thought of writing, which she was good at.
And so, with the doctor's help, she picked up her long-lost energy.
She picked up her long-lost skills.
And, later, she meets the gossip trio at the coffee shop.
In the face of their blatant mockery of the mommy bug.
She chooses to stand up for the rights of full-time mothers.
When spring comes, Ji-young comes to terms with her problems and starts to find herself.
She began to find herself.
She began to find herself and stopped minding the framework imposed on her by society and human feelings.
The husband sees the improvement in Ji-young's situation.
When the husband saw the improvement of Ji-young's condition and the return of his beloved wife, he was so excited that he burst into tears in the street.
When Ji-young saw the sunset again, she finally showed her smiling face.
After several years, her husband Dae-hyun took over the main responsibility of childcare.
Ji-young, who had regained her health, became a columnist for a magazine.
She began to write her own stories to soothe hearts.
Kim Ji-young, who finally got her lost self back.
This is a very healing film.
Frankly, I don't understand why it's being boycotted by Korean men.
I don't understand why it was boycotted by Korean men because the movie portrays the husband, Dae-hyun, as a responsible, giving man who loves his wife.
He is a man who loves his wife and knows how to give.
Even if he's not perfect.
But his love and protection for his wife
And in his wife's illness care and do not give up.
Really worth learning from many of us.
The film has a lot of details about the malice of women.
The film has a lot of details about the malice towards women, including the steel that the father gave to his brother.
The pen given to Ji-young by her brother is also a representation of "fatherly love".
Ji-young asked her brother for a pen for ten years.
It's not just because of a pen.
What she wanted was the same equal fatherly love as her brother.
Grandma and dad treat her brother as their heart's desire.
The work and hard work were the girls' business.
The good thing is that her father, who is older, eventually realized that he was too much.
Eventually, the father realized that he had overlooked his daughter's problem and eventually chose to correct it.
But in real life, most fathers will choose to knowingly violate the law.
But in reality, most fathers will knowingly do the same thing, and this is a bad education given to them by tradition and human feelings from childhood.
The malice of Korean society towards women is also reflected in the society.
In the early morning, women shoppers are worried about whether they are the first customer.
It turns out that it is a Korean tradition that stores do not like to have the first customer be a woman after opening.
There is also a trio of unqualified gossips.
This is the mainstream public perception of women and full-time mothers.
They think that full-time mothers are easy and don't recognize their contribution.
They even think that they are not obliged to go to public places to drink coffee.
However, Ji-young's greatest happiness is that she has a supportive husband.
He was the first one to find out about Ji-young's condition.
He was the first to find out about Ji Young's illness and tried to hide it from her for fear of scaring her.
He also knows how to defend Ji-young in front of her mother-in-law and help her out.
The reality is that
Most women do not love and support their husbands.
Most of them are even accomplices to social conventions.
Most of them are even accomplices to the social convention of being macho.
Most of them are even accomplices to the traditions of the society, and are so macho that they don't realize that they are hurting their own offspring.
Finally, I wish all women who are struggling with pain
May all women struggling to find their strength and direction.
I wish all women who are struggling to find their strength and direction, to care for themselves, to stand up and live their own lives.
(End)
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